Empathy in practice

Empathy helps us grow, too.

Listen, respect and accompany: small gestures that build a more inclusive community.

A teenager with headphones feeding a goat next to his father.Illustrative image
A calm sensory corner in a barn.
3gestures to start today

Three simple ways to start

Every experience is different.

Understanding different ways of experiencing the world and communicating helps us create a place where everyone belongs.

Interactive · the sensory room

What tires. What helps.

Autism is a different way of processing the senses, communication and relationships. Turn on what tires, then turn it off, and see how much calmer the same room feels.

Calm. The person can focus.

  • Concrete, written instructions.
  • Advance notice of changes.
  • A quiet place or noise-cancelling headphones.
  • Meetings with an agenda shared beforehand.
A young woman in a wheelchair touching lavender in a sensory greenhouse.Illustrative image

Two forms of overload, one cause

Meltdown or shutdown?

According to Autistica, both arise from overload: too much noise or too many people, uncertainty or an unexpected change. They look different.

  • It shows outwardly: crying, shouting, strong movements.
  • Self-injury may occur.
  • It is not a tantrum or a way of manipulating others.

Small gestures, big changes

Belonging looks like this.

Working side by sideIllustrative image Listen without assumptionsWorking side by side
A quiet placeIllustrative image Respect their paceA quiet place
Real rolesIllustrative image Make inclusion intentionalReal roles
Celebrating togetherIllustrative image CommunityCelebrating together

A note on language

Why we say “autistic person”

We say “autistic person” because it is the form preferred by much of the autistic community, according to a 2021 study with 803 online-course participants (Lei, Jones and Brosnan); professionals tend to prefer “person with autism.” If someone tells you they prefer another term, use theirs.

This content offers general guidance and does not replace the advice of a health professional.

From empathy to action.

You can help make this vision possible by making a contribution, sharing our mission, or reaching out to learn how you can give your time and talents.

WhatsApp